With The holidays fast approaching I'm reminded what Will Smith said --"To Many  People Spend Money They  Haven't Earned To Buy Things They Don't Want To Impress People They Don't Like"---We as African Americans are always buying things  we don't really need or want just to impress people we don't care the cost  we just want everyone to think we got it going on. We will take our bill money to buy 24inch rims to put on a car that only cost a third of the price of the rims but we continue to make places likes Rent N Roll or Roll A Round rich If we sit back and think before running out to spend money we haven't earned maybe try starting our own businesses or investing in our family's future we wouldn't have to go to a job that we hate going to day in and day out. Just think about it we are the only culture that wont support each other we talk bad about our neighbor if we think they are doing better than us  and  talk even worse when  they are doing bad why cant we just try being there  for one another and instead of talking trying supporting each other being there for each other .Lets break the curse then has been handed down teach our kids our to support there own culture.