Love Yourself first

 The Key to Loving Yourself as Tony Fahkry Stated, "It Is very important for one to love himself." When you dont love yourself it is hard to expect others o love you.Agreed we may have many faults and shortcomings But you must embrace yourself with all your faults and learn to love yourself Self-Love and self-esteem are related to each.

    Valerie Olmsted stated in her book  Learning To Love Oneself : Loving without Reservation- To Love without reservation means to love completely,fully without suspicion or distrust,kindly compassionately and consciously. Many people fall in lust rather than love or fall in love with the idea of being in love.My best-friend is one who falls in love so easily and quickly one would consider this as falling in love with the idea of being in love. I once made the mistake of questioning her love for another and she got upset, I suggested that she look into her self and find what she is missing and what she desires most out of relationship. Most women go into relationships with their eyes closed and hearts wide open.There's nothing wrong with loving but one must be logical too.